Monday, April 30, 2018

FOURTEEN

Ben went camping with his scout troop on Friday night. Since he didn't wake up at home on his birthday, we celebrated for several days! For starters, I checked him out of school for lunch at Cafe Rio on Friday.
 When he came home from his camp out on Saturday, we took him to Texas Roadhouse.
 He opened his presents on Saturday.
 Saturday evening, we went to the park with Chick-fil-A milkshakes to enjoy each other and the beautiful weather.
 Ben had his birthday breakfast on Sunday morning.
 On Sunday afternoon, Ben was ordained as a Teacher in the Aaronic Priesthood. It was a very special occasion for our family to be able to witness. I'm so very happy that our kids are making good choices and developing their knowledge of the Plan of Salvation. Last week Ben was released as Deacons Quorum President and he was a little teary when he told me about it. He loves to serve and do his part! He is committed to do his best and we feel blessed to have him in our family.
 Happy Birthday Ben! You are a champion and we love you!

Friday, April 27, 2018

Springtime

The weather this week has been lovely. 70 degrees with a light breeze. I am enjoying the screen on our new front door! I have a view of the beautiful blossoming trees and I can even smell them in the breeze. Ahhhh! If only it could stay this way all year.
Todd and I went shopping for shrubs last Friday afternoon. Then on Saturday, Todd and the boys worked hard to do a spring clean up in the yard and plant our new shrubs. Our yard looks amazing.
 We had guests last Saturday evening. Earlier in the day we set out the back patio furniture, so Sara made a sign for the front door. Her sign reads;
"Please go out in the back yard  Welcome" 
She's so stinking cute!
 Sara leaving church last Sunday. I couldn't resist taking a picture with the beautiful blossoming tree behind her. Her Primary class made pudding by the way. She has amazing teachers that always go above and beyond. We love the Packs!
 Sunday dinner on the back patio. It was lovely.
 Our beautiful blossoming tree. I LOVE it! I peek at it several times every day.
 The last few spring times have brought student body officer elections. Ben is running for 9th grade SBO this year.
 We went to the school this morning to hang his posters.
 Good luck Ben! Just remember- we're your biggest fans!

Great-grandma Royle

On April 18th, I went to help my grandma put salt in her water softener. While I was there, my grandma told me that her mom was born on April 18th in 1914. It was Grandma Royle's 104th birthday!
Grandma Miller's neighbor had made her raisin filled cookies. As we ate the amazing cookie, grandma told me about when her mom got polio. While her mom was in quarantine, her grandma taught her to make raisin filled cookies. Also while her mom was in quarantine, my grandma remembers going outside with her younger sister to peek through the window so they could see their momma. I can't even imagine how my great-grandma's heart must've broken to not be able to see or kiss her children!
In November of 2017, I did a Relief Society lesson for a heritage night about my great-grandmother Emily Peay Royle. I always knew my great-grandma had polio but I hadn't given much thought to how devastating it must've been for her family when she contracted the disease. 
Thankfully, my grandpa recorded the experience in his personal history. Here is his story in my words as I told it for Relief Society;
In the late-summer of 1940, my great-grandmother Emily Peay Royle was 26 years old and the mother of 3 young girls- my grandma (the oldest) had just turned 6 and her sisters were 4 and 18 months.
Families were still recovering from the great depression and looking for opportunities to earn money, so my grandpa's family decided to set up a hamburger stand at the Lehi Rodeo which my grandma helped with- coming in contact with hundreds of people.
A few days after the rodeo, grandma suddenly became extremely ill- so much so that they were visiting her in-laws at the time and she was placed in their bed. My grandpa immediately had a doctor examine her and he noticed that she gave no response when her knees were tapped with a mallet. Then, after the doctor's visit, my grandpa helped grandma to the bathroom. My grandpa said, "It was in the bathroom where the stark truth flooded my entire being- I knew my wife had polio for she was paralyzed!" Her legs were like the legs of a rag doll. He picked her up and carried her back to bed. He phoned the doctor again, this time with much anxiety telling the doctor that his wife had polio to which the doctor told my grandpa it was in his imagination. For the next several days, the doctor researched treatments and conferred with other doctors. By this time my grandma was completely paralyzed from her waist to her feet.
Finally, one week later, a specialist arrived that was able to properly diagnose polio. He immediately quarantined the family. It's interesting to me that my grandpa was permitted out of quarantine to teach school. What?! 
Finally after several weeks, my grandma was moved to LDS Hospital in Salt Lake City for several months of polio treatments and therapy. My grandpa said, "Obviously I was without any financial resources to pay for such needed care. Realizing our predicament, our bishop made the financial arrangements through the Presiding Bishopric's office. I was later interviewed by the Presiding Bishop regarding our financial and domestic circumstances. When he told me my responsibilities, I was relieved of the immediate concern. At that interview with a general authority, I, again, personally affirmed that I would always be a full tithe payer and a generous contributor to the Fast Offering Fund."
In the early Spring of 1941, grandma was moved from LDS Hospital to a private convalescing home in Salt Lake City. There she continued physical therapy treatments. My grandpa said, "The physical therapy treatments were continued until I finished the first year of teaching at Pleasant Grove High School. We rented a small modest home with plumbing. After nine months of separation, we were reunited as a family. It was almost like getting re-acquainted. Emily came home with considerable disability, especially in her left leg. The right leg had recovered about 90% of its function; the left leg was still paralyzed as at the outset of the polio. Before leaving Salt Lake City she was fitted with an orthopedic brace for the left leg. It was anticipated by the medical specialists that she would never walk again without the brace. She was given a pair of crutches to help her walk. She faithfully tried to walk each day as described.
Nadine was now six years old and began to sense her responsibility as the oldest child and help her mother learn to walk. For several weeks it was a very painful and disappointing experience for our family. When I would be away working during the daytime, Emily would try to walk but often fell to the floor or the ground if out on the lawn. The little girls would manage to help her up again, only to see her fall repeatedly. Through Emily's determination we soon learned that she would walk without the crutches and the brace.
After a few weeks she was able to walk everywhere by depending upon the right leg for stability and support and dragging the left leg by force of the hip muscles--right leg then left leg. That achievement on her part at that critical time of challenge has made it possible for her to walk in that manner until recent years when she had the misfortune to fall and fracture her hip. Indeed, she rescued herself from an invalid's life to one of productivity, service and happiness as a mother, housewife and support to her children and husband. All of us who have watched her accomplishments and toleration of pain can agree that righteous determination on her part has made her one of our heroes!"
My great-grandparents holding my grandma in 1935
My great-grandparents Homer and Emily Royle with my grandparents Larry and Nadine Miller in 1994

TEN

Luke had a couple of fun events in the days leading up to his tenth birthday. First, at the April Cub Scout Pack meeting, Luke received his Bear award and advanced to Webelos.

Here we are doing the sprinkler cheer for Luke.
A couple of days later, I had the opportunity to go with Luke to a mother-son date at his school.
We had fun playing minute-to-win-it games and all sorts of stuff. I love being with Luke. He is practical, positive, and he has a contagious laugh. I took him for ice cream after our date. I love listening to Luke talk. His brain is constantly processing. He's one smart cookie! 
 Luke's birthday lists;
 Luke's birthday breakfast along with a card and a cake from the Bell's (his Primary teachers). 
 I took cookies to Luke's class for him to share with his friends and then I took him out to lunch. He loves the chicken enchiladas at Costa Vida with a root beer. Luke LOVES to eat. Sometimes kids his age eat kids meals, but not Luke. He can put an adult meal away without a problem. I'm still not sure where all that food goes though.
 Grandma Miller came to visit for Luke's birthday.
 After school on his birthday, Luke went to two hours of scouts. He went to his last Bear den meeting followed by his first Webelos meeting. He LOVES scouts. After scouts, he opened his presents.
 Luke also LOVES his dog.
 Our Luke asked for brussel sprouts, green beans and cucumbers with his birthday dinner. Hooray!
 Luke lighting his own birthday candles.
 Luke's collage of pictures that my mom posted on Instagram.
 Luke loves to read. He was ready for school early yesterday morning, so he sat by the door with his backpack on and started volume 2 of Fablehaven. He finished volume one within a week! Brussel sprouts and reading- HOORAY! This mom is thrilled!
 HaPpY bIrThDaY LUKE!!! We love you!

Youth Conference

After Friday afternoon at our house and the temple, we met again on Saturday for a full day of Youth Conference.
Saturday morning we piled supplies that we had collected a few weeks before into our suburban with a group of kids. Then, we went to deliver the supplies to refugees.
It was fun for our youth to deliver the supplies and then spend time playing soccer and games with the refugee children.
 After lunch, we gathered at the church for Midas Creek Idol. Here are some of the leaders before their hilarious skit.
 Michael and his group of buddies before their skit.
 After skits and a pizza dinner at the church, we met at the Moffat's for volleyball...
 and a testimony meeting around the fire.
It was a great weekend with an amazing group of youth!

Thursday, April 26, 2018

The front door

One Friday in April I was teaching Sara's first grade art class when my phone rang, twice. On the second ring I decided it must be important. Sure enough, it was Todd. He said that the front door we ordered last November was on its way to be installed and he wondered if I could be home within 20 minutes.
The problem? 
The youth in our congregation were gathering at our house that afternoon for youth conference kick-off. We had a devotional and dinner scheduled for 4:30pm and we were expecting 50-60 people! However, we had been waiting for months for our new door to be installed. We were afraid that if we told the door installers to come another day, we would have to wait for who knows how long.
 So, I hurried home and took a before picture of our old door.
 Notice the sunlight coming through the old door. It was weathered and drafty!
 As the door installers went to work, I had my eyes on the clock. It had snowed the night before and the weather was cold. At 2 hours before our dinner party, the house was freezing and our front door was nothing but the original door frame. I didn't mention the big party coming at 4:30 to the installers. I wanted them to take their time to do the job well. In between making brownies for the party, I swept the garage just in case our guests needed to enter through the garage.
 As I was sweeping the garage, I remembered these shirts we found in Disney World. I should have bought it! I need something to wear next time my husband invites 60 people over and has our front door replaced in the same afternoon. My life with Todd is always an adventure. Seriously! I just have to laugh about it.
At 1 hour before party time, things were starting to come together.
Remarkably, the door installers finished their job and pulled away from our house at 4:20pm.
 Ten minutes later, the youth and their leaders entered through our new front door and gathered in our family room for a devotional. Todd asked me to share my testimony with the group. My testimony is that our Heavenly Father is aware of us each individually. I know this to be true. I feel His love for me every single day.
 Everyone gathered at our house for a Chick-fil-A dinner.
 After dinner, the group went to the temple. It was a successful youth conference kick-off!
And it was a Friday to be remembered!